Reading up on communication
10 deep · digging since dec 29, 25
- How to ask for help from people who don't know you
Successful cold outreach requires a short, specific ask that signals you've done the easy work yourself, making it easy for the recipient to say yes or no.
- Why thinking out loud with someone beats thinking alone
Articulating thoughts to another person compels clear structure and reveals hidden assumptions, often leading to better solutions than solitary reflection.
- Why I email complete strangers
Cold-emailing strangers with genuine intent often leads to meaningful connections, and the anxiety of sending is outweighed by the potential for unexpected positive outcomes.
- Stop trying to engineer your way out of listening to people
A Hacker News discussion argues that efforts to engineer better communication systems often ignore the core problem: people do not genuinely listen or translate across knowledge gaps.
- The Best Conversation Openers - The New York Times
The New York Times suggests replacing vague openers like 'What's up?' with specific, context-aware questions to spark more engaging conversations.
- Do not apologize for replying late to my email
The author argues that apologizing for replying late to emails is unnecessary and creates awkward pressure, undermining the asynchronous nature of email.
- Brain Dumps as a Literary Form - by Dave Griffith
The act of sharing AI-chat transcripts is emerging as a new literary form that transmits raw thinking rather than compressed conclusions, inverting traditional communication craft.
- How we lost communication to entertainment
Communication platforms have been co-opted by advertising and entertainment, as social media and ride-sharing alike prioritize profit over genuine human connection.