Reading up on mental-health
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- To Get More From Your Run, Try This Training Strategy
Running without a watch improves performance by tuning into bodily cues and reducing reliance on external metrics, fostering a more intuitive, enjoyable training experience.
- The Electric Pain in Her Tooth Baffled Every Dentist. What Was Wrong?
A 69-year-old woman's agonizing facial tooth pain, misdiagnosed by multiple dentists, was ultimately caused by trigeminal neuralgia from a compressing artery.
- When Lifelong Runners Are Forced to Quit
Lifelong runners forced to quit due to injury or age experience grief as they lose their identity and community tied to the sport.
- For Many Americans, Depression Is Familiar. Here’s What We Know.
More than one in four U.S. adults report a depression diagnosis, highlighted by Representative Thomas Kean Jr.'s hospitalization for depression.
- She Loved Fighting Wildfires. Then One Trapped Her.
Two female firefighters died in a Colorado forest fire, including Emily Barker, who had loved the work since childhood.
- I Thought Divorce Meant Walking Away From the Past
In a personal essay, the author discovers that divorce does not mean abandoning the good memories of marriage and is thankful for their persistence.
- Opinion | We Liked Remote Work. Then We Looked at the Data.
Remote work explains a third of the decline in Americans' mental health over 15 years, deepening isolation and distress.
- The Pain of Caring for a Parent Who Abused You
The US relies on unpaid family caregivers, with millions of adult children caring for parents who abused them, highlighting a painful emotional burden.
- Are You ‘Triggered’ or Just Upset?
The term 'triggered' is frequently misused, and experts argue this misuse can cause more harm than good.
- Summer Challenge: Put Your Phone Away for Better Sleep - The New York Times
Putting your phone away for a few minutes before bed can significantly improve sleep quality, according to a New York Times summer challenge.
- How Three Chess Friends Battled Demons and Saved Two Lives
Three chess friends — a homeless hustler, a scholar, and a recluse — helped each other overcome personal demons and saved two lives in a Central Park apartment.
- Summer Challenge: Get Outdoors and ‘Touch Grass’ - The New York Times
Time spent outdoors, especially in nature without digital devices, measurably improves mental restoration and well-being compared to phone use alone.
- What I Learned About Loss While Skateboarding at Costco
The author uses skateboarding at Costco to explore lessons about mortality and finding joy in the present moment.
- You’re not burnt out, you’re existentially starving
The piece argues that many modern professionals mislabel a lack of meaning and purpose as burnout, calling it 'existential starvation' instead.
- Kennedy’s Push to Curb Antidepressants Has Shaken Psychiatry
Robert F. Kennedy Jr. called for curbing antidepressants at a psychiatric meeting, sparking fears that patients will be driven away from care.
- Stressing Over Something? These 3 Questions Can Help.
Asking three specific questions—'Will this matter in a year?', 'Can I control the outcome?', and 'Is this a problem or an inconvenience?'—helps people gain perspective on stressors.
- Qwen
Social media use intensity positively predicts academic procrastination among college students, mediated by psychological capital and moderated by time management disposition.
- The Good List: 6 Things to Add Joy to Your Day
Lists six simple pleasures—including voice memos, snail mail, and a private screening room—to add joy to the day.
- Opinion | The Nobel-Winning Psychologist Who Believed He Found the Secret to Happiness
Satisficing—choosing 'good enough' instead of the best—leads to greater happiness and frees cognitive resources for what matters, per Herbert Simon's research.
- Men who stare at walls
Staring at a wall for 5-10 minutes without thinking is a difficult but effective way to reduce information overload and improve focus, similar to meditation.
- If America's so rich, how'd it get so sad?
The U.S. is wealthy in aggregate but faces rising unhappiness driven by political polarization, COVID-19's lingering effects, social media, secularization, and economic insecurity despite high spending by the top 10%.
- Nicole Kidman Wants to Become a Death Doula. What Is That? - The New York Times
Nicole Kidman’s public wish to train as a death doula after her mother’s death prompts an explanation of what death doulas do — non-medical end-of-life planning, emotional, and practical support.
- 5 Books That Can Help You Navigate Stressful Times - The New York Times
Mental health and grief experts recommend five books—ranging from memoir to philosophy—that have personally helped them cope with death, illness, and despair.
- 4 Ways to Flourish (in Good Times and Bad) - The New York Times
The article's core claim is that flourishing depends on how we navigate life's ups and downs, not on external wins and losses, and it offers four practical strategies.
- The 7 Biggest Decluttering Myths - The New York Times
Experts debunk seven common decluttering myths, explaining why beliefs such as 'everything must have a home' can hinder effective organization.
- How Escape Rooms Helped Me Escape My Life - The New York Times
Escape rooms provided the author with a temporary escape from grief and a vision of a possible, okay future self.
- What’s It Like to Have Dyslexia? Trump’s Attack on Newsom Exposes Stigma - The New York Times
Gavin Newsom's dyslexia is highlighted amid Trump's attack, emphasizing that dyslexia affects 20% of Americans and is unrelated to IQ.
- My Sex Addiction Nearly Wrecked Our Marriage. Do We Have to Tell the Kids? - The New York Times
A couple debates whether to disclose the husband's past sex addiction to their children, weighing honesty against the risk of harming family trust.
- Ask HN: How to be alone?
A 38-year-old seeks community advice on transitioning from a long-term relationship to living alone, describing feelings of hollowness and difficulty adjusting.
- When Using AI Leads to “Brain Fry”
Excessive use of AI agents causes 'brain fry'—mental fatigue leading to errors, slower decisions, and intent to quit—per a new study.
- How to Have a Longer and More Fulfilling Sex Life - The New York Times
Seniors can sustain a longer, more fulfilling sex life by remaining physically active, open-minded, and adapting to age-related changes.
- How to talk to anyone and why you should
A Hacker News discussion shares personal stories advocating that talking to strangers enriches life and builds community, with counterpoints about respecting boundaries.
- BAFTAs 2026 Outburst: What Tourette’s Tics Feel Like - The New York Times
A New York Times piece describes the daily struggle of Tourette's tics and the emotional hurt they may cause, following an outburst at the 2026 BAFTAs.
- To Stay in Her Home, She Let In an A.I. Robot - The New York Times
An 85-year-old woman living alone on the Washington coast uses the ElliQ robot as a companion to combat isolation and loneliness.
- The Secret to Happiness May Lie in Our Social Skills - The New York Times
The book 'How to Feel Loved' argues that social skills are a key predictor of happiness and contentment.
- AI fatigue is real and nobody talks about it
AI makes individual tasks faster but increases cognitive load through more tasks, constant review of probabilistic outputs, and relentless tool churn, leading to engineer burnout.
- What Does It Mean to Be Touch-Starved? - The New York Times
A lack of physical contact can negatively impact health and well-being, and there are ways to increase safe touch through self-massage or pet interaction.
- South Korea Questions Cram School Culture and Childhood Stress - The New York Times
South Korea's intense academic pressure now drives even preschoolers into private after-school classes, sparking concerns about children's rights and well-being.
- Cancer Surgery and the Pain I Didn’t Want to Face - The New York Times
After receiving a cancer diagnosis, a writer fixates on clinical medical details to avoid emotional pain, until physical symptoms force him to confront his unprocessed feelings.
- Her Sudden Back Pain Was Unbearable. What Could Ease It? - The New York Times
A doctor and mother of four experienced severe, unstoppable back pain, highlighting the limits of medical relief for acute spinal conditions.
- Vitamin D and Omega-3 have a larger effect on depression than antidepressants
Hacker News commenters debate whether vitamin D and omega-3 supplements are more effective than antidepressants for depression, citing personal anecdotes and warning against mega-dosing.
- How to Make and Keep Friends - The New York Times
Offers practical advice on initiating and sustaining adult friendships, focusing on effort, vulnerability, and consistency.
- 24 Tips for Better Health and Wellness - The New York Times
Doctors, therapists, and other experts offer 24 concise, actionable tips for better health and wellness, covering diet, exercise, sleep, and mental well-being.
- How Bad Are A.I. Delusions? We Asked People Treating Them. - The New York Times
Dozens of doctors and therapists told The New York Times that patients have developed psychosis, isolation, and harmful habits from interacting with chatbots.
- Building Brains on a Computer
Recent advances in expansion microscopy, protein barcoding, and AI-based connectomics make full human brain emulation plausible within decades, but require massive data acquisition and compute.
- Ask HN: Burned out from tech, what else is there?
A tech worker's burnout post on HN draws dozens of replies sharing personal transitions to teaching, trades, military, and other fields, often with improved happiness.
- I Let My Wife Have an Affair. Do I Have to Console Her Now That It’s Over? - The New York Times
A man who permitted his wife's affair feels relief at its end while she grieves, questioning his obligation to console her.
- Myths and Facts About Narcissists - The New York Times
The article debunks common misconceptions about narcissism, clarifying that it is a clinical diagnosis, not a label for everyday selfishness.
- I'm addicted to being useful
The author argues that an addiction to being useful and solving problems provides personal satisfaction but can lead to burnout and counterproductive dynamics in teams and relationships.
- Exercise can be nearly as effective as therapy for depression
A Cochrane review suggests exercise may reduce depressive symptoms, but commenters debate its clinical significance and note depression often kills the motivation to exercise.
- Ask HN: How can we solve the loneliness epidemic?
An Ask HN post seeks solutions for the loneliness epidemic among people who feel unable to join local groups and instead spend time on social media.
- Opinion | Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Unhappiness - The New York Times
American political toxicity may originate from the nation's quality of life falling behind its peer countries.
- Ask HN: What tech job would let me get away with the least real work possible?
In a 2025 Ask HN thread, developers share that low-effort tech jobs exist in government, defense, and internal tools, though many warn such roles are soul-crushing and suggest addressing deeper unhappiness instead.
- Murder-suicide case shows OpenAI selectively hides data after users die
A murder-suicide lawsuit reveals OpenAI selectively withholds chat logs after users die, inconsistent with its stance in other cases.
- 9 Ways to Take Care of Your Mental Health in 2026 - The New York Times
A New York Times guide outlines nine methods for mental health maintenance in 2026, focusing on refreshing the mind and bolstering the brain.
- Claire Brosseau Wants to Die. Will Canada Let Her? - The New York Times
Canada debates expanding medical assistance in dying to individuals with mental illness, as Claire Brosseau seeks the right to die despite divided professional opinion.
- Maybe the default settings are too high
Slowing down consumption—through close reading, walking, or deliberate attention—yields richer understanding and well-being, countering modern pressures for speed and volume.
- You’re not burnt out, you’re existentially starving
Burnout is actually existential starvation caused by lacking meaning, and reconnecting with community, purpose, or political action can restore fulfillment.
- Nick Reiner’s Struggles With Drugs Left His Parents ‘Desperate’ - The New York Times
Nick Reiner, arrested in connection with his parents' deaths, had been in drug treatment 18 times as a teenager, leaving his parents desperate.
- Why are 38 percent of Stanford students saying they're disabled?
The article questions the sharp rise in disability claims at elite universities, suggesting many students may be seeking accommodations for competitive advantage.
- Opinion | Forget Therapy. I’m Turning to Magic. - The New York Times
The author forgoes weekly therapy sessions in favor of astrological consultations, framing mystical practice as a meaningful alternative to mental health care.
- Opinion | It’s OK That Our Long, Mostly Good Marriage Ended - The New York Times
Amicably ending a long, mostly good marriage can be a freeing and increasingly common choice, as the author reflects on their own experience.
- Opinion | The Quest for Perfection Is Stunting Our Society - The New York Times
The pressure for flawless performance across music, work, and daily life damages mental health and erodes societal resilience.
- The surprising benefits of giving up
A meta-analysis of 230 studies finds that adjusting or abandoning unattainable goals reduces stress, anxiety, and depression more than persistent grinding.
Takes
People are actually ending up in the hospital with stress from trying to escape the permanent underclass
@levelsio
i keep a running doc called “things i’m not doing anymore” and look at it monthly really simple way to live a happier & more productive life
@gregisenberg
I still think about this a lot
@rchase
One of the best quality of life improvements is the simplest of all: Like more things.
@jasonfried
An important read on life and enjoying every day.
@BillAckman